Ep 39 - What It's Like to Hire a Pro Dom: Pleasure, Boundaries & Power Play with Sir Marvelous

What happens when a professional dom and pleasure coach sits down to unpack the psychology of kink, power, and pleasure?

In this episode of The Kink Consultant, I’m joined by the brilliant Sir Marvelous, a pro dom, educator, and content creator who's on a mission to make BDSM more accessible, intentional, and deeply satisfying. From his early journey with sex toys to his current work guiding individuals and couples through personalized kinky experiences, this conversation is full of both fire and insight.

We talk about everything from the difference between dominance and leadership, to the importance of safe, ongoing negotiation in kink sessions. Sir Marvelous shares his thoughts on why BDSM isn’t just about play. It’s about learning, evolving, and closing the pleasure gap through communication. We dive into topics like edging, mind play, denial, why submission doesn’t mean weakness, and how even a simple sex toy changed the trajectory of his life (shoutout to that random man outside the NYC sex shop!). He also opens up about his teaching philosophy, the role of ego in intimacy, and the importance of making space for joy, curiosity, and mutual exploration.

If you’ve ever been curious about what it’s like to hire a pro dom, how to introduce kink to your relationship, or why pleasure is something worth investing in, this episode is packed with truth bombs and transformative takeaways. Tune in and discover how BDSM can be a path to connection—not just in the bedroom, but in life.

From Meh to Mind-Blowing: Taking Control of Your Intimacy and Satisfaction

In this episode of Triggered AF Podcast, we dive deep into the world of pleasure, intimacy, and sexual exploration with renowned professional Dom, pleasure and intimacy coach, Sir Marvelous. We discuss the importance of understanding and embracing your own sexuality, breaking free from societal norms, and empowering individuals to take full responsibility for their own pleasure. Key Topics:

• The Importance of Exploring Your Sexuality: Why it’s vital for individuals to explore their sexual selves without shame or guilt.

• Barriers to Female Orgasm: Sir Marvelous explains why many women struggle to reach orgasm and how to overcome these challenges.

• Taking Responsibility for Your Own Pleasure: How personal empowerment and self-awareness can enhance intimacy and sexual satisfaction.

• Breaking Free of Societal Expectations: The harmful myths and misconceptions about sex that can limit personal growth and pleasure.

• Practical Tips for Sexual Wellness: How to better understand and communicate your needs with a partner to create a more fulfilling sexual experience.

If you're ready to learn more about how to take control of your own satisfaction and improve your intimacy, this episode is for you!

Diving Deep Into Bdsm Psychology With Sir Marvelous

Class is in session, and today, we’re diving into one of the juiciest lessons yet! Your host, @Billy.thebadguy, is joined by the captivating and oh-so-knowledgeable Sir Marvelous to break down the Psychology of BDSM—because let’s face it, kink is way more than just handcuffs and safe words. In this episode, we’ll study: 📚 Building S3xual Anticipation: How to keep your partner on their toes (in and out of the bedroom). 📚 Getting Comfortable Asking for What You Want: From the bedroom to the boardroom, it’s time to speak up and own it. 📚 Rediscovering Pleasure and Rebuilding Confidence: Whether you’re starting fresh or spicing things up, we’ve got you covered. And of course, the meat and potatoes—we’ll deep-dive into the Psychology of BDSM: Why trust, communication, and power dynamics are at the core of this connection. Spoiler alert: It’s about way more than just pain and pleasure—it’s a whole masterclass in intimacy. Grab your notebooks and get ready to take notes because this lesson? It’s one you won’t want to skip! 🎧 Tune in now to Needs to Be Studied—where every class is a study in connection, confidence, and a whole lot of spice.