Sir Marvelous
Kink Educator & Intimacy Coach
Women orgasm way less than men do during sex and most people have just accepted that as normal.
Some women have never orgasmed with a partner at all. Others have, but the same moves that used to work have stopped working, and nobody taught them why.
This is what we call the orgasm gap and I built my career fixing it.
What I Offer
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Private Sessions
This is for:
The woman who believes she is broken.
The woman who’s never experienced pleasure with a partner.
The couple whose spark isn’t what it used to be.
The couple where he wants to actually satisfy her, not guess.
The couple working through his confidence in the bedroom together.
Anyone whose body insecurity runs the room.
This is a curated experience. Several experiences available. Click here to learn more.Email to Inquire or click the button below to schedule via WhatsApp.
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Private Virtual Coaching
This is for:
The man who wants to bring BDSM or dominance into his relationship but doesn’t know where to start.
The partner managing a physical or medical limitation who wants to stay confident and creative in the bedroom.
The person navigating a long distance relationship who wants to keep intimacy alive virtually.
Anyone who wants to explore dominance, submission, or their own desires with expert guidance, regardless of gender.
Single coaching calls and full 6-week program available.
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Podcast, Production, & Event Appearances
If you’re looking for a guest who doesn’t just talk about kink but actually shows it, fire play, electric play, knife play, rope work, live spanking demonstrations, I bring the visuals that make people stop scrolling and start commenting.
If you want an episode your audience remembers and clips and shares, that’s exactly what I bring to the table.
Whether it’s a podcast, a docuseries, or a live event, I show up ready to make it memorable.
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Speaking, Classes, & Workshops
Topics I teach:
The orgasm gap sounds clinical until I show you it’s actually your story too.
Impact play seems intimidating until you realize it’s really about trust, and you already know how to build that.
Negotiation and consent sound like a lecture until I show you it’s just asking for what you want, something you do every day without knowing it.
Dirty talk feels impossible until you see it’s a skill, not a personality trait, and skills can be learned.
Aftercare sounds optional until you realize it’s the part that makes everything else actually land.
I’ve brought this same shift to rooms at Exxxotica, on stage for BedroomKandi, and on countless sex-positive podcasts.
Topics can be tailored for specific events.
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Brand Ambassador
I’m open to partnerships across a few key lanes, men’s luxury lifestyle, think suits and elevated fashion, BDSM and kink equipment, sexual wellness products, learning materials and toys, and travel and lodging in the sex positive space. If your brand or business lives anywhere in the world of sex, pleasure, or intimacy, there’s probably a fit here.
Brands I’ve worked with:
Lovense
Sportsheets
Uberlube
Starship of Atlanta
Tokyo Valentino
Where you may have seen me…
I’ve brought BDSM and pleasure education to some of the biggest sex-positive platforms out there, including LuvBites by Dr. Tara, the Business of Pleasure Podcast, Angela Yee’s Lip Service, Whoreible Decisions, and more. My expertise is trusted by clients, event hosts, and educators alike for my unique ability to merge education, entertainment, and eroticism.
Whether I’m teaching a class, coaching a couple, consulting on a production, or performing live on stage, my approach is rooted in professionalism, safety, and liberation.
Sir Marvelous on Your favorite Podcast
Whoreible Decisions (now Decisions Decisions)
Cocktales
Not Just Another Sex Podcast
Hard or Soft (2x)
Needs to be Studied
Angela Yee’s Lip Service
Honestly Tho
Late Night with Ler & Lionel
Good Moms Bad Choices
Triggered AF Podcast
8 At The Table
The Cultured Misfits Podcast
The Funsexual Podcast
The Kink Consultant
LuvBites with Dr Tara
A Local Event
Dom/sub Dynamics Virtual Summit (2026)
NorthEast Conference of Kink Fetish Ball (2025)
LS Unscripted Live presented by Kelly’s Dreamland (2025)
Dom/sub Dynamics Virtual Summit (2025)
Geisha House Experience presents Into the Dark Side (2025)
The Fet Ball Dallas (2024)
So you Wanna Dom? presented by The NSFW (2024)
Exxxotica Expo 2024 (DC)
Reclaiming Black Sex Erotic Art Show 2023 (ATL)
Bedroom Kandi Convention 2022 & 2023
Exxxotica Expo 2021 (NJ)
Exxxotica Expo 2022 (DC)
Good Moms Gone Wild Live Show 2022 (NYC)
Sexual Essentials Art XXXhibit 2022
Bedroom Kandi Symposium 2022
Limitless Luxe LS F.E.D Formal Erotic Dining: The High Protocol Edition 2021
Hard or Soft Podcast Live Show 2021 (NYC)
Black & Kinky 2021 (NYC)
Black & Kinky Dungeon Masquerade 2021 (ATL)
Naughty Nytes Not Your Only Valentine 2021 (NYC)

Diving Deep Into Bdsm Psychology With Sir Marvelous
Class is in session, and today, we’re diving into one of the juiciest lessons yet! Your host, @Billy.thebadguy, is joined by the captivating and oh-so-knowledgeable Sir Marvelous to break down the Psychology of BDSM—because let’s face it, kink is way more than just handcuffs and safe words. In this episode, we’ll study: 📚 Building S3xual Anticipation: How to keep your partner on their toes (in and out of the bedroom). 📚 Getting Comfortable Asking for What You Want: From the bedroom to the boardroom, it’s time to speak up and own it. 📚 Rediscovering Pleasure and Rebuilding Confidence: Whether you’re starting fresh or spicing things up, we’ve got you covered. And of course, the meat and potatoes—we’ll deep-dive into the Psychology of BDSM: Why trust, communication, and power dynamics are at the core of this connection. Spoiler alert: It’s about way more than just pain and pleasure—it’s a whole masterclass in intimacy. Grab your notebooks and get ready to take notes because this lesson? It’s one you won’t want to skip! 🎧 Tune in now to Needs to Be Studied—where every class is a study in connection, confidence, and a whole lot of spice.